Good Guys DO Finish Last
THE FOLLOWING IS TAKEN FROM CATE’S BLOG WHICH CRASHED DUE TO THE SUPPORT OF OUR AWESOME FOLLOWERS AND FRIENDS.
Ok, so this isn’t directly charity related but this blog is about what happens when you make a decision to change your life for the “better” and follow your heart to try to leave the world a better place.
I’m emotionally drained, so most of this post is going to be copies & pasted from an email I sent last night to a friend. Forgive me, it’s not lazy… it’s just an emotional incapability to write it all again.
Here’s the deal. We live in this fantastic house, it’s really amazing and we took it on when we were both making good money and the rent $675/week was no issue. Then when Ricks business got hit by the GFC and all the big contracts he was supposed to be working on got put on hold until the economy picked up again. So initially my business was supporting his payroll until I just couldn’t afford to do it anymore and we had to put everyone off.
So a few months later when I decided I really wasn’t happy with my business anymore and needed to do something worthwhile, we were in a comfortable position. We did all the numbers and what we had coming in was enough to cover the necessities. There wasn’t heaps left over, but we’re simple people we don’t want for much. We don’t drink or smoke, we don’t eat out, we don’t as a general rule go anywhere that costs anything. The sum total of our “entertainment” spending is our Austar subscription – and given that we don’t get free to air TV here, I don’t think that’s a luxury when you’ve got kids.
We made the very difficult decision to take our children out of their private school that they love next year, and send them to a public school. This will save us about $12,000/yr and, had we not had some horrific problems with the school in the last term, I’m not sure I could have bought myself to do that.
We have managed to keep paying the rent for the most part this year but have missed about 4-5 weeks over the last year. For the last couple of months we’ve been paying $700/week to try to pay off some of what we owe in arrears, and we haven’t missed a rent payment in ages. The real estate agency seems to turn over staff faster than KFC (no offence KFC, thanks for not using Palm Oil anymore) - the previous property manager had made an agreement with us that if $700 was what we could afford, then that was fine. When he also left, 3 months ago we heard no more from the agent until about a week ago when they were to come for a routine inspection.
The inspection date rolls around and we are waiting all day for them to show up. We made 4 or 5 calls to their office but the phones weren’t answered (it was, after all, Melbourne Cup day). That evening we received a phone call from our neighbour who lives in a completely separate house at the bottom of the 14 hectare property. He asked if we were to have an inspection that day, because someone had come to his house and left a note saying that he was supposed to be there for an inspection, but as he wasn’t they had entered his property to carry out the inspection without him. That’s right… they went to the WRONG house – a house which is not even rented through their office and carried out an inspection on the home. People who live in the country will understand that we’re pretty relaxed about locking doors out in the sticks.
So the giggling property manager rings up two days later- apparently illegally entering someone’s house is funny, and she reschedules her appointment for today. I had no desire to speak to her so passed her on to Rick. At the time of this phone call she told Rick words to the effect of: she can see that our rent is being paid regularly but it is still behind, and that we need to put a payment plan forward to catch up the arrears and if we do that, everything is OK. That was on the 5th of November. “Set up a payment plan and everything will be fine”
On Monday the 9th we spoke to the property manager again to try to determine exactly how much we would need to pay to keep out of trouble. The property manager wouldn’t give us an answer and instead told us “you work it out and I’ll go back to the owner”
So we sit down and crunch the numbers, we’re already leaving ourselves short for food, but Rick spent the day at the Salvo’s getting some food etc. Which I feel crap about cause he’s a pretty proud guy, he’s never been unemployed, he’s never had to ask for food. But he did it and he came home happy because we had food. I should say also that he’s been applying for every single job that is advertised within a reasonable commute including some pretty crappy jobs which with his depth of knowledge & experience are insulting, but he’s applying. I’m just making the point that we aren’t sitting here trying to be elitist, we’re doing everything we can.
So then soon after he got home, less than 24 hours after speaking to the agent about the rental arrears, the real estate agent rings up again and says they’re hand delivering a notice to vacate and we have SEVEN days to get out of the house.
The whole time with the cars and all the other crap, I kept saying “I’m ok as long as I have a roof over my head and we don’t lose the house” – so now… yeah … now I have no idea what we’re going to do. We couldn’t afford to move even if we did have somewhere to go, and the landlord won’t let us stay even if we managed to find the $3,000-odd we owe them. My family have even asked me “what about your rent, are you ok with that?” and I’ve said “yeah, we’re fine!” because we had an agreement, that yes we were a few weeks behind but we were paying regularly AND paying extra, albeit only a little extra.
Just as I thought we would be able to cope with Christmas, Remax Mooloolaba expect a family, in financial hardship, with 9 children a dog, a cat & 9 chickens to not only find alternate housing but be moved out and property cleaned, keys returned within SEVEN days. And when we ask how we are supposed to find another house (especially as evictees) we are told “We will do what we can, but it probably won’t be through us”
We are not delinquent tenants. We don’t have parties and annoy the neighbours. We haven’t trashed the property, in fact we keep an impeccable house and grounds. We have three special needs children who have really only just settled in to their surroundings. The thought of spending Christmas homeless is really not something I planned when I decided to give up my previous life to try to make the world a better place.
The point of this blog at the start was to prove that anyone could make a difference if they decided to. I guess at this point I’m not making a very good case. If you’re wondering if this means the end of Project 18, then the answer is an unequivocal NO. I won’t give up on what I believe in. We’ve made a commitment to the betterment of the planet. Remax Mooloolaba won’t put an end to that.
We have had several discussions with Remax over the past 24 hours begging them to be reasonable – they refuse to negotiate. I would like to ask all my supporters, followers and friends to help me spread the word. And please take a minute to contact Remax Mooloolaba and ask them WHY in this day & age, are they so incapable of making reasonable compassionate decisions?
You can Tweet Remax Mooloolaba @RentalAdvice email: mooloolaba@remaxproperty.com.au or phone their office 07 5452 4555



Wow! This seems so unfair even by real estate standards. I guess you have contacted the tenancy tribunal and had advice from their legal advisers? They have been really helpful to us in the past. This just seems so wrong, I’m so sorry you have to go through this.
Oh Cate…
I read your story with absolute horror!!! I am also a tenant with kids and I have your Evil Real Estate Agent Evil Twin! I will re tweet, that is not ON by anyone standards!
I am Soooo outraged, This goes way beyond REMAX Mooloolabah, they’re just the little guys making pathetic decisions……..
REMAX Head Office needs to be informed, but the media also needs to know! REMAX is a Franchise and REMAX gets the bad publicity, not just Mooloolabah, so hopefully the pressure from the other franchisees will turn it around, as all their businesses will be affected.
I am going to contact a friend who has a bit of ‘pull’ with the media and see if we cant get a story. If I had the money Cate, it would be given to you without hesitation, but I know you know that I just don’t….. Sorry!
there are other ways to help and I’ll give it my damndest!!
Heaps of love
Bev
xx
Unbelievable. I really feel for you. There must a a consumer affairs there in QLD? We have one in Victoria who you can call and ask for advice. Tenants in Victoria get a little red book when they rent a property and the number is on that booklet. You probably would have one aswell, otherwise google and make lots of calls!
Good luck!
I am calling today tonight I have nine kids with my partner and i would be pissed too! I will help if i can!
As Julie said, contact your local tenancy advisory body and have a chat – http://www.rta.qld.gov.au/contacts_for_tenants_.cfm
On the surface, I’d be surprised if your RTA would force you to move. Contact me via email if you need some help with any of this.
I am totally shattered for you & have no idea how to help you! Instead I have contacted both Today Tonight & A Current Affair & I hope that they can make your story public on a national scale – this sort of treatment is disgusting by the real estate and as for the owner of your property…. he had better wish that his life & situtation doesn’t change due to karma xx Good luck guys, I truely hope that this works out for the best for you all xx Lou
This is very stressful and it certainly doesn’t help when you’re trying to get your life together already. Just digs a deeper hole. That’s what they mean by poverty is a spiraling circle (or something along those lines) and we are all subject to crash because of credit, debt and living within our means even though our means are actually outside our means. It’s a risk we take.
On the other hand it’s not your kids fault or your own and this is terrible to go through. It’s supposed to be a basic human right to have a home, delinquent or not. Wish I had one too. I wish the whole world was different.
If you can get it on TV then they might change their minds but it still doesn’t solve a massive problem because they will just move on to their next victim.
What can we do to help other than calling your agent?
Hi guys. I recommend you IMMEDIATELY contact Today Tonight in your vicinity and ask them no plead with them, to become involved and help you sort this BS out as soon as possible so you can get back on with your lives.
When I read the part that ‘even if you come up with the money, they still won’t allow you to stay,’ REALLY shows how bloody minded and non-caring they are. Today Tonight will dig up a lot of similar poor dealings by the pricks concerned. It will make good TV viewing. Yes, you have to put yourself ‘out there’ for all to see, but it will be worth your effort.
Best of luck and I look forward to seeing the successful outcome on the TV.
John in Adelaide
http://theinnerguru.com
PS Good Guys DO come last is true, ONLY if you throw your hands in the air and give up. Please don’t give up, EVER!